My parents had a simple rule: If you cannot pay for it, you cannot afford it. This means avoiding debt at all costs. My father was 40 when he was urged to buy a two-wheeler on EMI.
He reluctantly agreed because public transport to his workplace was a nightmare. That was the only item my parents ever got on a loan. They (and, therefore, I) were lucky to live on ancestral property, so the home loan hassle was avoided. This is a reasonable debt to service as long as the property is for self-occupation. Not because it is an appreciating asset (self-occupied property has no value and depreciates!), but because inflation will reduce the impact of the EMI over time – provided we are not in a rage to close it.
That mindset was ingrained in me. And my wife came from a similar background. So, I never got anything on loan. I did start my career with a net worth of minus Rs. 3 lakhs – the amount my brother-in-law gave us to pay for my dad’s hospital costs.
My parents lived from paycheck to paycheck and barely managed to save anything. Because they stayed out of huge debt, they could somehow manage. I was lucky enough to stand on their shoulders, get qualified, earn a reasonable salary, and build wealth.
To me, if you can’t pay for it, you cannot afford it was golden common sense. Sadly, it is long dead. I was shocked to learn via Sonia Shenoy that ” Credit card default is rising at an alarming rate, pushing a lot of young Indians into a growing debt trap. Outstanding credit card dues had skyrocketed to nearly Rs 2.7 lakh crores in June 2024 compared to less than 90000cr in March 2019.”
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Credit Card Dues and Defaults on the Rise. There are many such reports (including many news by the time this article is published).
Excellent FOMO marketing by product manufacturers has resulted in a huge increase in consumerism. Is this the price to pay for a country to become economically strong? That a good chunk of its citizens live paycheck to paycheck, suffocating under a mountain of debt?
Too much saving – the way we were in the 1980s and 1990s – is neither good for the citizens nor the country. Too much spending – the way we are now may seem good for the country, but when the party stops, and it will, this style of living will crumble like a biscuit quickly.
We must balance our wants for today and our needs for tomorrow. We must curb our spending, ignoring all that “you only live once (yolo)” gyan. Otherwise, we will guarantee that there will be no tomorrow. Resolve to change your life in the new year before it is too late.
If you cannot pay for it, you cannot afford it. No, you are not special in any way. You don’t deserve anything special, certainly not something you cannot pay for in cash.