Lessons from investing for my son’s future for the last 12+ years

Published: July 30, 2022 at 6:00 am

My son turned 12 a few months ago. I have been investing for his future since Dec 2009 – a month before he was born. Here are some lessons from this journey.

Many years ago, I asked a question in the Jagoinvestor forum, “if anyone has achieved their financial goals using mutual funds, please share your experience”. To this Manish responded, “it is unlikely that any forum member would have done this”. So I told myself, “let me be the first person I know to have done this”.  Technically, I am not there yet, but at least I have hit the target corpus well in advance.

When I started investing for this goal, money management basics were almost in place, except for term insurance which I got a few months later (March 2010). So from day one, investments were made with asset allocation in mind – 60% equity and 40% fixed income. Contrast this with how most of us (including me) plan for retirement: heavy on EPF/PPF and trying to catch up on the equity exposure for several years.

During the last trimester of my wife’s pregnancy, I started thinking about how to start investing for the child’s future. We are victims of our own experiences. It took me a good 14 years after school to land in a “permanent position”. Although my father retired in 1997, and my mother in 2002, both with meagre salaries, they never pushed me to get a job,

So I wish the same for my son. Hence this post: What if our children never had to work! Very few people (Subramoney being one of them) understood what I wanted to say there. I believe parents should provide a strong, wide platform for children to blossom, find themselves and even experiment after school.


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So, after a rough estimate of UG + PG education, I decided on a target corpus when my son finishes school. I was able to cross this target sometime in late 2020 or early 2021. As of now, my son would like to explore a career in physics/astronomy. Let us see how this changes down the line.

Exploiting the fungibility of my mother’s cash flow with mine, I opened a PPF account for her. This doubles as a tax-saving instrument for her and as the fixed income component for my son’s education goal.

As her health worsened, I had to consider the possibility of premature closure of the PPF account. So I opened one more in my son’s name. I neither claim these as “good decisions”, nor do I recommend that. Just stating facts.

To this day, both PPF accounts have never been maxed. That is total investment per account, per financial year is nowhere near Rs. 1.5 Lakh. If I had done this, the first casualty would have been asset allocation.

However, whenever I have a chance to rebalance the portfolio, the PPF accounts are maxed first. This way the risk premium from equity is protected in PPF. See: This useful feature of PPF deserves more attention!

Over time, the amount held in fixed income assets has gradually exceeded the current cost of a UG and PG education. This allows me to take a considerable risk: Why are you holding 55% equity with only six years left for your son to enter college?

But we are getting ahead of ourselves here. Back to the early days of MF investing: For the equity, first, a SIP in HDFC Top 200 was started. A couple of years later I added HDFC Prudence and ICICI Dynamic Fund (now multi-asset).  The Top 200 was shifted to Prudence and Mirae India Opportunities was added at some point. Again merely stating facts. Unlike what many think, no complex calculations were involved in these decisions. Initially, I was planning for his marriage expenses separately but later on merged it with the education goal.

Readers familiar with my yearly financial audits may recall the equity portfolio (updated July 12th 2022)

  • Equity: 55%, Debt: 45%
  • Equity:
    • HDFC Prudence. XIRR 15% Weight: 29.5%
    • Mirae Large Cap Fund XIRR 28%. Weight 13.7%
    • ICICI Dynamic (ICICI Multi-asset fund) XIRR 15% Weight: 42%
    • Overall equity portfolio XIRR 14.6%
  • Debt:
    • ICICI Arbitrage Fund: XIRR 5%, Weight: 31%
    • ICICI Gilt: XIRR: 2%, Weight: 23% (investment less than a year old)
    • Parag Parikh Conservative Hybrid: XIRR: not able able to compute, Weight: 1% (this is only a couple of months old)
    • PPF: Weight 45%
    • Overall debt portfolio XIRR excluding PPF: 4.2%

I have been able to keep the equity allocation close to 60% most of the time reducing it to 55% recently. Rebalancing was done a total of five times – three times into the PPF account and twice into the ICICI arbitrage fund and once into ICICI gilt fund.

Lessons in this 12-year journey

  1. Time is crucial. I had a full 18 years before he finishes school (because he is Jan-born). Starting allows us to take significant portfolio risk. This applies not just to the initial phase of the investment, but also in the latter half.
  2. Goal-based rebalancing/re-alignment is crucial. I have been able to gradually allocate an amount equal to current PG expenses over the last few years. I was able to emotionally handle the March 2020 crash because of this. This also allows me to have a high equity exposure in spite of the sequence of returns risk.
  3. Luck always plays a role in investing but discipline is necessary to exploit it.
  4. Increasing the amount invested each year is a huge factor. I am investing 3-4 times as much as what I did in 2010. That is about a 12% year-on-year increase in the investment amount. This is the hardest part. Luck plays a big role here. Any big expense or break in employment can make things difficult. See: Why increasing investments each year is crucial for financial freedom
  5. Focus is important. Focus on inflation first. Even 10% is an underestimate here. In spite of that, we see people asking, “is X child plan good? The “where to invest” question should start here.
  6. Excluding PPF the XIRR of the total portfolio is about 12.5%. If we approximately include PPF, the total XIRR should be just about 10%. So zero real return. See: Fee-only advisor Avinash Luthria warns real investment returns will be zero!
  7. investing each month based on a system is systematic investing. This investment can be manual or automated but must be based on a plan. Merely automating when money will be debited from a bank account is called SIP.

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