How I learnt that investing is about finding the balance and not chasing returns

Published: July 13, 2025 at 6:00 am

In this edition of the reader story,  “Two years ago, I made a decision that reshaped my relationship with money, risk, and peace of mind. Last year, I shared how after losing six months’ worth of income in futures and options (F&O) trading, I stepped away from the chaos and adopted systematic investing. It wasn’t an easy shift, but it was necessary. That phase taught me more about how not to invest than any book or course ever could.” This is what happened since then.

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Since then, I’ve stayed away from F&O entirely—except for 2–3 isolated instances where I exited with no profit and no loss. Those moments were driven more by curiosity than conviction, and they quickly reminded me why I chose to walk away in the first place.

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Lifestyle Evolution and Financial Discipline

Over the past two years, life has become more vibrant—and yes, a bit more expensive. Regular get-togethers, quarterly travel, and frequent badminton sessions have quietly nudged my monthly expenses up by around 10–15% of my in-hand salary. But these are conscious choices—investments in experiences, health, and happiness. Despite this lifestyle inflation, I’ve managed to keep my liabilities at zero, and that’s something I take pride in.

I also received an inheritance of ₹20 lakh, of which I’ve invested ₹7.5 lakh. The rest is being held in liquid form, earmarked for future marriage expenses. Interestingly, my partner-to-be shares a similar investment mindset—and we’re already looking forward to co-authoring the next edition of this journey together.

Insurance & Emergency Preparedness

  • Term Insurance: ₹3.25 crore (₹2.5 crore from Max Life + ₹75 lakh from Kotak). I plan to double this post-marriage.
  • Health Insurance: ₹8 lakh via my employer. I missed renewing my personal policy this year but plan to enhance coverage after marriage.
  • Personal Accident Insurance: Currently not in place.
  • Emergency Fund: Still untouched and intact—my financial safety net remains strong.

My Investment Strategy: Balanced, Disciplined, and Evolving

Equity

  • I continue to invest in the same 3 stocks via SIP every 15 days, focusing on large and mid-cap companies.
  • Minor adjustments were made along the way, but the core remains stable.

Mutual Funds

  • Monthly SIPs continue in 4 funds:
    • 1 Index Fund
    • 1 Technology Fund
    • 1 Focused Fund
    • 1 ELSS
  • I also invest in a Balanced Advantage Fund either quarterly or when its NAV rises by 5%, whichever comes first.
  • Recently invested ₹5 lakh in a new Mid Cap Fund.

Sovereign Gold Bonds (SGB)

  • Increased holdings from 50 to 75 units.

EPF & VPF

  • Employer contributes to EPF.
  • I’ve opted for 10% of my basic salary to go into VPF.

ESPP (Employee Stock Purchase Plan)

  • Contribute 25% of basic salary monthly, with stock purchases every six months at a 15% discount (US-based stock).

Physical Gold

  • No additional purchase. However had purchased earlier a 100g gold bar as a long-term asset.

Fixed Deposits

  • Maintained an FD covering 24 months of expenses.
  • Discontinued the IndMoney FD pot.

NPS

  • Continuing contributions via employer (10% of basic salary).

US Stocks

  • Simplified my approach due to geopolitical concerns, IndMoney issues, and 20% TCS/LRS complications.
  • Now investing in 1 US stock per month, with dividends reinvested.
AK's Asset Distribution for July 2023 and July 2025
AK’s Asset Distribution for July 2023 and July 2025

Final Thoughts: The Power of Balance

This journey has taught me that investing isn’t about chasing returns—it’s about building a life of stability, flexibility, and purpose. Balanced investing has allowed me to enjoy life today while preparing for tomorrow. I’m not aiming to beat the market; I’m aiming to stay in the game, calm, consistent, and clear-headed.

See you again in July 2027. Until then, as usual, I’ll leave you with a timeless reminder from Robert Kiyosaki:

It’s not how much money you make, but how much money you keep, how hard it works for you, and how many generations you keep it for.

Reader stories published earlier:

As regular readers may know, we publish a personal financial audit each December – this is the 2024 edition: Portfolio Audit 2024: The Annual Review of My Goal-Based Investments. We asked regular readers to share how they review their investments and track financial goals.

These published audits have had a compounding effect on readers. If you would like to contribute to the DIY community in this manner, send your audits to freefincal AT Gmail. You can also publish them anonymously.