A Late Starter’s Journey: Regrets, Mistakes and a Fresh Plan at 39

Published: December 23, 2025 at 6:00 am

In this edition of the reader story, we meet someone who is starting over at 39. This is in response to my recent request on social media to share their investment journeys. We urge you to share your journey too (anonymously, like this piece, if you prefer). You can find details at the top of the reader story archive.

About this series: I am grateful to readers for sharing intimate details about their financial lives, which benefits us all. Some of the previous editions are linked at the bottom of this article. You can also access the full reader story archive.

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Please note: We welcome such articles from young earners who have just started investing. See, for example, this piece by a 29-year-old: How I track financial goals without worrying about returns. We also have a “mutual fund success stories” series. See, for example, how mutual funds helped me achieve financial independence. Now, over to the reader.

I think Pattu sir is reading my mind. I was thinking about writing my investment journey so far to freefincal, but I was afraid it might be rejected.

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A bit of background info about me: 39-year-old male, married with one child, planning for a second child.

Every other day, I feel I’ve wasted at least 5 years without investing. I sincerely request that you start investing in your early 20s. Have a plan for the future and work towards it.

My first investment, like most of us, is in a LIC policy, Jeevan Umang. The agent convinced me that i can use this as a pension plan and my descendants will get few crores when I turn 100. I was excited and paid ₹200000 per annum for this from 2018.

Next year, I got married, and my wife, who is wiser than I, kept pestering me to plan investments. I couldn’t understand investing apart from LIC policies.
She decided to take the matter into her hands and started investing in 2 funds. Four years later, I saw the returns and realised what had to be done. Meanwhile, my daughter was born. I approached an MFD, who advised me to invest in 2 funds for my daughter’s education.

With deep regret for missing years, I started investing in more funds. To start with, I had a SIP in UTI Nifty 50 index fund. Last year I redeemed the amount for a personal expense which I could have avoided. Now the fund has literally doubled its money in 2025. The NAV was 90, and now it is close to 180—another bad decision.

Next, every article I came across mentioned that Quant funds are the best over the last 3, 5, and 10 years. FOMO kicked me, and I started a SIP into the Quant midcap fund. Hardly 2 months after, the quant funds were accused of front-running by SEBI. I stopped this SIP, too—another poor decision.

In 2025, I came across freefincal and Asan Ideas for Wealth.

After reading as many posts as possible, I became increasingly stressed about whether I would be able to meet my financial goals.
Now I have decided to consult a fee-only planner and am waiting for his suggestions on how to improve my portfolio to meet my goals.

In the meantime, I was reading the articles in freefincal and found that Pattu sir is against SIP investing in midcap and small cap funds. I was wondering why he is against these asset classes, and a few days later, one of my funds (midcap) had -11% returns. This is going to test my discipline and true risk appetite. But I decided to wait another year or so before discontinuing this SIP.

Definitely next December, I will update my journey and will try to do so every year. Thanks Pattu sir and other mentors in Aasan ideas for wealth.

Reader stories published earlier:

As regular readers may know, we publish a personal financial audit each December – this is the 2024 edition: Portfolio Audit 2024: The Annual Review of My Goal-Based Investments. We asked regular readers to share how they review their investments and track financial goals.

These published audits have had a compounding effect on readers. If you would like to contribute to the DIY community in this manner, send your audits to freefincal AT Gmail. You can also publish them anonymously.