From 25 Lakhs Debt to Crores in Assets: My 12-Year Journey of Discipline and Clarity

Published: February 28, 2026 at 6:00 am

In this edition of the reader story, we have a debt-to-riches story.

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I wanted to share my personal and financial journey—not to showcase success, but to reflect on lessons learned through struggles, discipline, and long-term thinking. I hope this resonates with someone who is walking a similar path.

I graduated in Mechanical Engineering in 2008 and began my career in India with a modest salary. Like many of us, I was focused on survival and growth, without much financial awareness in the early years.

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In 2012, my life took a serious turn when I realised my family was burdened with more than ₹25 lakhs of debt—bank loans, high-interest outside loans, and loans against family jewels. That phase taught me the true meaning of financial stress and responsibility.

In 2013, I moved to the GCC for the first time. Over the years, with job changes across India, Abu Dhabi, and Muscat, my income improved gradually. In 2015, I took a personal loan in the UAE at a much lower interest rate and closed all my family debts in India in a single day. That remains one of the proudest moments of my life.

Marriage in 2016 and starting a family brought new responsibilities. Initially, managing EMIs and expenses was tough, but a major career breakthrough in Muscat helped stabilise both my financial and personal life.

Along the way, life tested us emotionally as well. In 2019, my brother was diagnosed with cancer. Despite spending nearly ₹10 lakhs on treatment, we lost him in 2020. That loss reshaped my perspective on money, time, and priorities forever.

Between 2020 and 2022, by pledging jewels, using gratuity, advances, and all available savings, I invested in land plots worth over ₹1 crore. These decisions were not easy, but they were made with conviction and long-term vision.

In recent years, I consciously shifted my mindset:

  • I exited a mis-sold LIC endowment policy after identifying flaws, fought a one-year case with the Insurance Ombudsman, and recovered my capital.
  • I took proper term and health insurance.
  • I built an emergency fund backed by gold.
  • I started learning equity investing seriously and now focus mainly on index funds and flexi-cap funds.

Current Snapshot (2025):

  • Land investments: ~₹1 crore (current value ~₹1.5+ crores)
  • Gold investments: ~₹50 lakhs (current value ~₹1.5+ crores due to recent surge)
  • Equity investments: ~₹50 lakhs and steadily increasing
  • Fresh investments are now fully focused on equity to build a balanced portfolio

Habits That Helped Me:

  • Saved nearly 95% of income during bachelor’s life in GCC
  • Still saving ~60% even with a family and two kids
  • No major lifestyle inflation for over 10 years
  • Driving the same second-hand car for nearly a decade
  • Never compromised on food, health, kids’ education, or experiences
  • Took my first international vacation only on my 10th wedding anniversary

Aspirations Going Forward:

  • Focus more on happiness than accumulation
  • Travel and explore the world
  • Raise confident, knowledgeable, and humble kids
  • Build passive income streams
  • Explore entrepreneurship
  • Aim to be wealthy in values and freedom, not just rich in numbers

This journey taught me that discipline beats income, patience beats timing, and clarity beats complexity.
If my story helps even one person stay calm, hopeful, or disciplined during tough phases, this sharing is worth it.

Summary of my journey so far

2008: Mechanical Engineering graduate. Started my first company job in India. Monthly salary: 15,000.

2009: Monthly salary: 21,000.

2010: Monthly salary: 28,000.

2011: Monthly salary: 28,000.

2012: Monthly salary: 32,000. Came to know the family had 25 lakhs+ debt (10 lakhs bank at 8% + 10 lakhs outside at 36% + 5 lakhs from relatives/jewels).

2013: Career milestone: first time to GCC (Oman). Monthly salary: 60,000.

2014: Career milestone: second job in GCC (Abu Dhabi). Monthly salary: 1,10,500.

2015: Career milestone: increment in the same job. Monthly salary: 1,44,500.

2015: Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 1,44,500. Took a UAE personal loan of 22 lakhs (4.5%) and closed all family credits in India in a single day (“dream day”).

2016: Personal journey: got married at 27. Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 1,44,500. Faced difficulty managing UAE EMI and expenses with family.

2016: Career milestone: third job in GCC (Muscat). Monthly salary: 3,24,000. A major salary jump helped manage EMI and personal life.

2017: Personal journey: first kid (daughter). Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 3,24,000. Bought first car: second-hand Toyota Corolla (5 years old) in Muscat.

2018: Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 3,24,000. Closed personal loans and took an LIC endowment policy (2 lakhs yearly) as retirement backup.

2019: Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 3,61,000. Brother got cancer; spent up to 10 lakhs for him.

2020: Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 3,61,000. Lost brother.

2020: Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 3,61,000. Pledged wife’s marriage jewels, used gratuity/advance/savings, and bought the first land plot property worth 50 lakhs+.

2021: Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 3,61,000. Cleared marriage jewels loan, accumulated jewels, pledged again, and bought two more land plots worth 30 lakhs+.

2022: Personal journey: second kid (son). Career milestone: fourth job in GCC (Muscat). Monthly salary: 4,50,000. Cleared marriage jewels loan, accumulated jewels, pledged again, and bought two more land plots worth 30 lakhs+.

2023: Continued in the same job. Monthly salary: 4,80,000. Bought a brand new Toyota Glanza for my parents.

2024: Career milestone: fifth job in GCC (Muscat). Monthly salary: 5,30,000. Started learning equity investing and began investing aggressively (mainly index funds and familiar flexi-cap funds).

2025: Continued same job. Monthly salary: 5,80,000. Took term and health insurance; built an emergency fund of 80 grams of gold chain; closed the LIC endowment policy after a dispute and recovered 12 lakhs capital after a year via the Insurance Ombudsman. Current portfolio noted: ~1 crore in land plots (now ~1.5 crores+), 50 lakhs in gold (now ~1.5 crores+ due to surge), and ~50 lakhs in equity with a continued long-term focus toward a balanced portfolio.

Current habits: Saved 95% income as a bachelor in GCC; saving 60% with family (2 kids); no big lifestyle upgrades for 10 years; driving the same second-hand Corolla for ~10 years; no compromise on food/clothing/entertainment/kids’ education & extracurricular; first international vacation on 10th wedding anniversary.

Aspirations: Do more of what gives happiness; travel and explore more; raise confident/knowledgeable/humble kids; build passive income (none yet); try entrepreneurship; aim to be wealthy rather than rich.

Reader stories published earlier:

As regular readers may know, we publish a personal financial audit each December – this is the 2024 edition: Portfolio Audit 2024: The Annual Review of My Goal-Based Investments. We asked regular readers to share how they review their investments and track financial goals.

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