Building Wealth and Breaking Barriers: How Swati Took Control of Her Financial Future

Published: February 9, 2025 at 6:00 am

A few weeks ago, Swati wrote: “I regularly follow the Reader Story section on Freefincal and deeply appreciate its effort in sharing valuable insights into personal finance journeys. As a strong advocate for women’s financial independence, I understand the critical importance of women taking charge of their own finances, rather than leaving the responsibility solely to the men in their families”.

“Unfortunately, in the socio-economic circles I am familiar with, women, though often educated, are rarely economically independent. Even those in professional roles often have limited awareness or understanding of personal finance management. This lack of knowledge and awareness creates a significant gap that needs addressing.
I also believe that women benefit immensely from relatable role models who inspire them to embark on their own financial journeys.”

“The Reader Story section has the potential to create multiple micro-role models for women, celebrating their achievements and promoting financial literacy. Such stories can undoubtedly inspire young women to take the first steps toward financial independence”.

“However, I have observed that the majority of contributors in this section are men. While their stories are valuable, men and women often encounter distinct challenges in their financial journeys. Featuring women’s perspectives can provide a richer, more inclusive narrative that resonates with a broader audience. May I kindly suggest inviting women to contribute to the Reader Story section or as fee-only advisors to write for freefincal? Their experiences could serve as powerful inspiration for others.”

Our past efforts in this regard did not bear much fruit. This is one rare instance: How a single mom is on track to financial freedom. I requested Swati to share her story in the hope that it would be the start of more reader stories from women in 2025 and beyond.

About this series: I am grateful to readers for sharing intimate details about their financial lives for the benefit of readers. Some of the previous editions are linked at the bottom of this article. You can also access the full reader story archive.

Opinions published in reader stories need not represent the views of freefincal or its editors. We must appreciate multiple solutions to the money management puzzle and empathise with diverse views. Articles are typically not checked for grammar unless necessary to convey the right meaning and preserve the tone and emotions of the writers.

If you would like to contribute to the DIY community in this manner, send your audits to freefincal AT Gmail dot com. They can be published anonymously if you so desire.

Please note: We welcome such articles from young earners who have just started investing. See, for example, this piece by a 29-year-old: How I track financial goals without worrying about returns. We also have a “mutual fund success stories” series. See, for example, how mutual funds helped me achieve financial independence. Now, over to the reader.

I began working in 1994, fresh out of university. A year later, I got married, and in 1997, we welcomed our first child. Coming from a middle-class background, I experienced the traditional and gendered expectations placed on many Indian women in the 90s.

Marriage was a major life shift, and like many women of my generation, I found myself balancing work, family, and societal norms. Amidst the whirlwind, one emotional dream emerged, fueled by family dynamics: to own a home in my “own” name. Back then, I had no understanding of financial planning, 

As life stabilized, I shifted my focus to building a corpus for my child’s education and other financial goals. Despite earning well—with an expense-to-earnings ratio of 35% in 2008—our personal expense inflation was steep, exceeding 8%. I prioritized giving my children a well-rounded upbringing, which came with significant costs. Compounding the challenge was my family’s aversion to market-linked investments, which were dismissed as “gambling.”

Despite the scepticism, I was curious about stock investing and sought opportunities to learn. In 2004, I gained access to an online trading platform and cautiously entered long-term stock investing. However, I soon realized it demanded more time and expertise than I could dedicate. By 2007, I turned to mutual funds, starting with HDFC’s ISA service.

Around this time, I sought professional investment management but was fortunate to connect with Vipin Khandelwal (later the founder of Unovest). He encouraged me to manage my finances independently. With his guidance, I crafted my first financial plan in 2008—a pivotal moment in my journey. I am always grateful to him. 

At the time, our net worth was heavily skewed: 58% in real estate and just 9.5% in equity. After accounting for all our goals, we had no allocation for retirement savings beyond EPF/PPF or annuity-based plans. The silver lining was time, and while expenses were high, our savings were adequate to meet our goals. I began working towards financial balance.

In 2017, I faced a layoff. A year later, dissatisfied with a new work environment, I revisited our financial plan. By 2018, with 94% of our retirement corpus in place, I retired—a challenging but rewarding decision.

Today, my spouse continues to work, and our children are pursuing their academic dreams. I’ve settled into hobbies and passions that bring me joy. Our retirement corpus is ~35 times our annual expenses, with separate allocations for all goals and emergencies. However, high personal expenses, inflation, and tax outflows remain ongoing concerns.

Our current net worth consists of 13% in real estate and physical gold, with the remainder in non-physical assets, allocated as follows:

  • 36% Equity (mutual funds and stocks, aiming for 40%)
  • 28% Retirement funds (EPF/PPF)
  • 9% Annuities (NPS and pension funds)
  • 15% FDs and bonds
  • 8% Debt mutual funds
  • 4% Gold ETF/SGB and insurance-linked savings

Our equity portfolio, built during 2004-2008, is far from perfect. Stock selections, often guided by external advice, yielded mixed results. However, services like Equitymaster’s ValuePro provided some excellent recommendations then. Our mutual fund portfolio, while over-diversified, reflects caution rather than FOMO. I’m hesitant to allocate too much to a single AMC or fund. This complexity is being managed through Excel and programming, though it remains a challenge.

Currently, 46% of our mutual fund portfolio is in active direct large-cap funds, 26% in flexi-cap, and 22% in active mid-cap. Small-cap exposure is below 1%, which I plan to increase a bit. I am gradually transitioning residual regular funds (10% of our mutual fund portfolio) to direct index funds. Since we are underexposed to equity, I haven’t formally rebalanced yet, though I book profit time to time. However, I periodically review the portfolio and act if a mutual fund or stock underperforms my expectations for over a year.

My focus now is on simplifying our retirement corpus investments and minimizing taxes. I understand that age may impact decision-making capabilities, so careful planning for post-75 years is a priority. All our investments are managed online, and my family knows where to find the details if needed.

Despite exploring professional financial planning services, I’ve found it challenging to obtain personalized, actionable advice that is comprehensive and backed by in-depth product knowledge. 

Reflecting on my journey, I feel immense gratitude. The lessons I’ve learned—and continue to learn—have been invaluable. My greatest accomplishment is raising two financially literate and disciplined children.

P.S. As a natural pessimist, I’ve always planned for worst-case scenarios. While I refer to “our” portfolio here, we maintain clear distinctions between individual assets linked only through nominations. Building family wealth is important, but I firmly believe every woman should prioritize creating her own portfolio for personal safety and independence. After all, you cannot safeguard your family unless you’re secure.

Reader stories published earlier:

As regular readers may know, we publish a personal financial audit each December – this is the 2023 edition: Portfolio Audit 2023: The Annual Review of My Goal-Based Investments. We asked regular readers to share how they review their investments and track financial goals.

These published audits have had a compounding effect on readers. If you would like to contribute to the DIY community in this manner, send your audits to freefincal AT Gmail. They could be published anonymously if you so desire.

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